Let the Dark Take Me

Why horror makes you wet

Fear and Arousal Live in the Same Place It starts in the breath. That hitch in your chest.That clench in your belly.The way your skin listens—hungry, alert—when the dark whispers your name. You don’t know if it’s sex or survival.You…

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The Smallness Myth

The Smallness Myth and Internalised Body Expectations

Shame, Truth, and Rewriting Desire It starts before the first kiss.Before the first undoing of a belt.Before you even know what wanting is—this whisper you carry, silent as a bruise:Don’t be small. That myth, honeyed and hollow, presses itself into…

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Love With The Lights On

what polyamory isn’t

What Polyamory Isn’t You’ve seen the headlines. Heard the jokes. The loaded sighs. The questions posed like accusations:“Isn’t that just cheating with extra steps?”“Isn’t it just about the sex?”“Isn’t it just… a phase?” The keyphrase “what polyamory isn’t” has trailed…

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